Win the battle against yourself!

The battle

To win the battle against yourself, first, you need to understand what do you want most in your life? What can you not go a day without thinking about? Now you have to understand that the battle against yourself is the hardest battle. And you probably tell yourself that you can’t do it. That it is too hard to accomplish. That you are not good enough. Your mind constantly makes up a ton of excuses as to why you can’t do that thing to keep you where you are. Why?

 

Because you are afraid. You are subconsciously afraid of the change that will come from going after your dream. It doesn’t matter whether the change will be good or bad, your ego is afraid to change. Why is this? Because your ego likes the status quo. Right now, in this moment, you are alive and well and your ego wants to keep it that way. Evolution has given us an ‘ego’ precisely for that reason: self-preservation. It had a logical purpose back when humans were hunter-gatherers. We literally had to be afraid of everything that was foreign in order to stay alive. Not anymore.

Fear is not real, Will Smith, quote, battle. win the battle against yourself

We as a society need to finally move past those days of being afraid all the time. There is simply no reason for it. Our fear manifests itself in a ton of different ways. Wars, criminal actions, not going after the girl in the bar, and excuses all stem from our fear. In order to change as a whole, we need to change individually. You must change! I must change! We all need to take a good look in the mirror and say what are we really so afraid of? Is anything really that scary that we can’t overcome it? Is approaching that girl at the bar really that scary that I need to sit in the corner and regret trying to talk to her? Is going after my dream really going to hurt me so bad if I fail that I can’t recover?

 

The answer is an emphatic NO! What do you think separates successful people from non successful people? The answer is that those who are successful face their fears head on and overcome them. Successful people aren’t afraid of change because they aren’t controlled by fear! Those who are unsuccessful allow fear to overcome them and hate when anything changes in their lives.

Stop being afraid, dorothy thompson quote, motivational quote, battle

Change is inevitable and the sooner we as individuals realize it the better off we will be. You cannot go after your dreams if you are afraid. It simply won’t happen. You will constantly make up excuses as to why you can’t do it or why you are no good. I certainly did this for a while until I made a conscious decision and said, F*** it. I’m going to do what I want to do with my life and my fear will not stop me.

 

Don’t let your fears stop you. Be relentless in your approach to life and attack your fears head on. Win the battle against yourself and when you win that battle you will grow as a human being and achieve the life you want.

Thanks for reading. What is your biggest fear? What is holding you back? Please share any feedback in the comments below!

About The Author: Alex Palmiere- I am a 20 year old college student going after my dream of being an entertainer. I have a lot to learn and look to learn as much as I can from everybody I encounter. I like to give off as much positivity as I can, for I believe it is the key to living a great life. You can find me on my website alexpalmiere.com or follow me on twitter @Alex_Palmiere.

7 Comments

  1. Gilbert Samuel

    October 28, 2013 at 6:44 pm

    Great post and thanks for sharing. The word “fear is not real” reminded me of the actual meaning of fear.
    FEAR: false evidence appearing real.
    Have a wonderful week ahead.

    • Hristiqn Nikolov

      October 28, 2013 at 6:58 pm

      Thank you for the feedback, Gilbert! I am really glad you liked Alex post!

    • Alex Palmiere

      October 28, 2013 at 7:10 pm

      Thanks Gilbert, I appreciate the feedback! I agree with you 100%. Fear is all in our heads. Have a great one!

  2. Sayi Rama Krishna

    April 6, 2014 at 6:31 pm

    Completely agreed. Fear is just our imagination. Well written , but I didn’t like example of girl in bar. You could have explained with some better inspiring example.

  3. Michael

    April 8, 2014 at 12:14 pm

    Good article. You have wisdom beyond your young age

  4. Sagar Shah

    May 11, 2014 at 10:18 pm

    good post. my greatest fear is of losing my people. not being friends with people who im with right now. im going in =to the entertainment industry and i need to work really really hard to make biig. im scared to death if i would lose out on my friend but im yet going ahead with my plans and going to move out and live alone and go where i need to go and not come back UNTIL I MAKE IT!

  5. ajay

    May 24, 2014 at 1:20 pm

    yes good points the only thing is self fear…try to do best without thinking anything…nice post

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